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I made a huge mistake

I made a huge mistake

One of the biggest mistakes—and lessons learned early in my business journey—was due to underfunding. It happened when I opened my second venue, a fine dining restaurant that held 3 AA Rosettes. We transformed an old warehouse into a beautiful space with a bespoke kitchen and unique features like a fish tank that offered a view of the chefs at work.

Despite careful budgeting and accolades, we closed just 2 1/2 years later. It wasn’t the cost of the renovation that broke us; it was understanding the complexity of getting a hospitality business to fly. People are creatures of habit, and building a loyal following takes time, marketing, and purpose.

We ran out of money before we could truly establish ourselves. This taught me that hospitality projects require more funding than you might think. That’s why Kith & Kin Hospitality exists—to help others avoid the pitfalls I encountered.

Why Being Purpose-Driven is Essential in the Hospitality Industry

Why Being Purpose-Driven is Essential in the Hospitality Industry

Running a hospitality business is a tough gig—there’s always a crisis to manage, whether within your own operation or due to external factors. For many, the constant problem-solving and adrenaline-fueled innovation are what make the industry so exciting. But the relentless pace and long hours can become overwhelming. The key to navigating this chaos lies in being purpose-driven.

Knowing your purpose—why your business exists beyond just making money—brings clarity to every decision you make. It’s about remembering why you fell in love with the industry and understanding the value you provide to your customers. When decisions are guided by this purpose, they become easier and more aligned with your goals. You stop comparing yourself to competitors and focus on what truly matters to you and your customers. Being purpose-driven not only simplifies your business but also reignites your passion for it.

My Story: The First Time I Failed

My Story: The First Time I Failed

At 23, I went into business with my best friend. Despite our enthusiasm and a professional partnership agreement, our venture collapsed within six months. Our differing work styles and poor communication led to a nasty fallout, costing us both our friendship and business harmony. Over the years, I’ve learned essential skills like leadership, teamwork, and collaboration. Now, both successful in our own right, we've rekindled our friendship. Visiting his venues, I see how aligned our values are. If only we had known then what we know now, our journey could have been much smoother.

Unlocking Life Skills: The Hospitality Industry and the art of conversation

Unlocking Life Skills: The Hospitality Industry and the art of conversation

Recently delved into a fascinating conversation about the often-overlooked skills cultivated by the hospitality industry—true hidden gems. Take the story of a young social media influencer, thriving online but struggling with face-to-face interactions. To bridge this gap, a novel approach was taken: a weekend job in hospitality.

Why? Because the hospitality industry is a powerhouse of confidence-building and meaningful conversations, essential life skills that often go unnoticed. It inadvertently becomes a classroom for tacit skills—putting others at ease, ensuring comfort, and communicating effectively. These skills are not mere survival tactics but crucial life skills honed through experience and shared camaraderie.

This post celebrates the diverse skill set honed in hospitality—some become the class clown, others master the art of listening with intent, all contributing to a unique rhythm and patter.

Did you know that the cure for a broken ankle is to walk on it?

Did you know that the cure for a broken ankle is to walk on it?

Treatment for my broken ankle didn’t involve crutches or plaster

Modern science and ideas are always ‘evolving’ and changing.

I am still marveling at how wrong I was.

And what has this got to do with pubs, bars, and restaurants you ask?

Obviously technology and how it can be used has changed but I think more interestingly, our understanding of each other and human behavior has changed.

Moreover, culturally our customers have changed and are continuing to do so.

Things change, people change, cultures change and so ‘that’s the way we have always done it’ should also change.

Moving with the times and watching how the world around you changes can be a bit scary but it can also be exciting to see how we ‘evolve’ and get better all the time.

We have just got to remember that this applies to our businesses also.

Kith & Kin - a new way to support your business

Kith & Kin - a new way to support your business

For owner-operators of pubs, bars & restaurants, it is not a typical working environment. There is a never-ending to-do list and all the people you could ask for support from are ‘competition’

But wouldn’t it be nice to just give yourself a little bit of time to sit down, grab a coffee and chat to other owner-operators from across the UK who share your frustrations.

In a relaxed, informal Zoom meeting you could gain inspiration, share ideas, and collaborate - all for FREE

Are you prepared to fail?

Are you prepared to fail?

“If we are brave enough often enough we will fail” Brene Brown

When things go wrong of course there are regrets, days when you are consumed with thoughts of how you could have done differently and if only you’d been able to see around corners (or known what information you didn’t have) you could have perhaps made different decisions that would have resulted in different outcomes. But if creating and running businesses was easy then everyone would be doing it.

First considerations

First considerations

No matter how many times I create a new venue or transform a business, there is a thrill.

You are taking an idea that exists only in your head and making it a reality - if it was easy everyone would be doing it!